One Month Later...

It has been a month since Jun moved to Maui. Things have been fantastic, more than we both expected. It's amazing how life works. Literally a year ago I was living in Chicago freezing my ass off, yup even in May and a year later I'm living in paradise. How cool is that.

Living with Jun has been amazing. I've never met a person who was so selfless, caring, helpful, loyal, trusting, confident, strong, and hardworking. I could go on and on but you get the idea, and I'm not only saying this because he's my boyfriend. If you really know the kind of person Jun is than you know what I mean. As a companion he's unreal. He's like a puppy dog...so sweet and precious. He takes care of me when I'm sick. When we eat he always saves the best for me or gives me more...way too kind. He's also always helping out around the house and I never have to nag him about anything...that's actually amazing on my part hee hee. Whatever we do we always help one another and wherever we go we're always by each other's side. We're not only a couple but we're great friends. We don't always have to feel like we have to do something fancy or exciting to have a good time. For us, sitting on the lanai, sipping on wine, and talking is fun or even swimming laps at the Kihei recreation center to work out. But not only does Jun have a kind and gentle soul, but he also has power and strength, especially when he's physically active or determined to accomplish something.

Jun brings out the best in me. In a dysfunctional relationship I can be a bitch, a nag, or an insecure mess. But with him I don't feel any of those feelings. We have an understanding and respect for one another. It's refreshing to finally be with someone who actually cares and truly loves beyond themself. With him I feel safe, secure, confident, loved, and most importantly happy. I've never met a person like him. His soul and heart is pure and beautiful. He's name without a doubt stands by its meaning, Pure. I can't believe how blind I was and how I almost let him walk out of my life.


What I had with Sammie wasn't perfect but it was very meaningful. And so I never expected to fall in love again so soon, but I guess as the saying goes, "you don't choose who you love, love chooses you." What Jun and I have is a gift...